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lies lies lies. we lie so much we don't even call them lies anymore; only the really obvious ones are "lies."
you're projecting, jeff! not me, i strive to be honest! what are you trying to say?
robert trivers, biologist extraordinaire, introduced the notion of the evolution of deception and self-deception in the first introduction to dawkins' "selfish gene."
If deceit, he wrote, ''is fundamental to animal communication, then there must be strong selection to spot deception and this ought, in turn, to select for a degree of self-deception, rendering some facts and motives unconscious so as not to betray-by the subtle signs of self-knowledge-the deception being practiced.'' Thus, the idea that the brain evolved to produce ''ever more accurate images of the world must be a very naive view of mental evolution.'' We've evolved, in other words, to delude ourselves so as better to fool others-all in the service of the great game of propagating our genes.
what say you of these claims? can you answer honestly?
you're projecting, jeff! not me, i strive to be honest! what are you trying to say?
robert trivers, biologist extraordinaire, introduced the notion of the evolution of deception and self-deception in the first introduction to dawkins' "selfish gene."
If deceit, he wrote, ''is fundamental to animal communication, then there must be strong selection to spot deception and this ought, in turn, to select for a degree of self-deception, rendering some facts and motives unconscious so as not to betray-by the subtle signs of self-knowledge-the deception being practiced.'' Thus, the idea that the brain evolved to produce ''ever more accurate images of the world must be a very naive view of mental evolution.'' We've evolved, in other words, to delude ourselves so as better to fool others-all in the service of the great game of propagating our genes.
what say you of these claims? can you answer honestly?
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Thu, August 16, 2007 - 3:59 AM"what say you of these claims? can you answer honestly?"
It would depend on the average cost:benefit ratio of self-deception in a particular context wouldn't it? -
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Thu, August 16, 2007 - 7:02 PMof course. but i wonder, does self-deception ever really help us in the long run? seriously, what do you think?
i consider how these individual patterns of self-deception form a fractal (excuse the trippiness) geometry at a larger scale and help to create social structures that end up not serving us well enough, based on lies. actions based on true propositions may be difficult at first, but pan out as better for us after a while. i'm not sure, but it does seem that way to me. -
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Re: you lying piece of shit!
Thu, August 16, 2007 - 7:29 PMhi b-j, you are looking rather smart ;-)
>>of course. but i wonder, does self-deception ever really help us in the long run? seriously, what do you think? <<
interesting you should say this for a few months ago I had a very interesting time in conversation with some other travelers in Lahore over the differences between the Asian and European (I include you yanks in this context) way of doing business..
one of the things one discovers if one spends too much time in the sub-continent is that doing business, particularly in India and even when buying a cup of tea, can become quite tiresome as it is the norm to take any opportunity to cheat. As a consequence one never develops a good business relationship.
One of my fellow travelers quoted someone (whom I now forget) who stated that the advancement of Europe over Asia was precipitated by the Europeans realizing the benefit of honesty...
I realize that my above statement could open a whole can of worms and that one could read into it a degree of prejudice, but it's not the case. It is an honest and common observation that actually becomes quite frustrating for one is constantly having ones humanity tested by it.
howevert it is evident and i'm sure most of you will agree that you can rip someone off once but treat them honestly and you get a customer for life. so deception, whether to self or others is counter productive.
reading through my own post I just realized something... could someone please inform the Bush administration... we would all benefit
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Fri, August 17, 2007 - 6:10 PM"One of my fellow travelers quoted someone (whom I now forget) who stated that the advancement of Europe over Asia was precipitated by the Europeans realizing the benefit of honesty... "
better to follow jared diamond's materialist methodology and account for cultural differences through historical materialism and resource availability than "Europeans just realized it." then we can acknowledge cultural differences without implying some group is basically superior mentally, which is conceivable generally, but not likely here, or with such big populations. cheating pays sometimes, sometimes it doesn't. ours is to figure out why the difference might exist in this instance. my gut tells me first that one cheats when one is more desperate and willing to alienate the other party from future transactions. if any of you have ever been very poor, you will know that one's morality slips more easily when material conditions differ.... -
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Sat, August 18, 2007 - 4:36 AMoh very so B.J, cultural differences are (IMHO) extremely dominant factors. In this specific case the Indian Caste system, whilst illegal, has no small part to play. For this is such a prejudice system that it not only puts blinkers onto the individual but tends to cause them to 'walk backwards' through life: to see only what has transpired and not what can be achieved.
Realize in the context I use encapsulates rather a lot. In just over 60 years Europe has gone from a war torn and divided continent to a state of union both at the economical and social level (politically it still has a lot to achieve!). That change though took much longer but was certainly accelerated by those two awful wars.. We learned, even if we don't acknowledge it that there are only loses in a war.
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>>without implying some group is basically superior mentally, which is conceivable generally, but not likely here, or with such big populations.<<
I am not implying this and in fairness I wouldn't spend the amount of time I do in these countries if that was the case. In general I encounter quite the opposite within individuals and small communities but there is a national identity, being cultural, theological, environmental, what ever.. that does differentiate us. That identity I would aver is fashioned from the past; it is what we were rather than what we can be and hell does it complicates things...... (lol.. my current reading list includes, the Devi Bhagavatum , the life of Mohammad, the myth and history of the Ganga, Kashf Al-Mahjub... all in all 14kg of books in order to better understand)
Although I do take issue with you on the poverty aspect of your comment for this is not true in my experience. The poor could not be more removed from such, perhaps because the price of deceit is alienation and in when one is poor, the community is, from a relative aspect, everything: to practice deceit and risk alienation is to gamble everything on a a lie. It is though extremely complex having many factors which interplay in a variety of ways.
but this is an interesting topic and thread that will hopefully continue to yield food for thought.
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Sat, August 18, 2007 - 7:32 PM"The poor could not be more removed from such, perhaps because the price of deceit is alienation and in when one is poor, the community is, from a relative aspect, everything: to practice deceit and risk alienation is to gamble everything on a a lie"
cheating in business is usually a sign of a desperate fly-by-night operation -- one that doesn't care about its future reputation either because it can't afford to care due to the severity of its material needs, will move on to some other environs, and/or think it can get away with it sufficiently to avoid getting caught.
poor folks in poor communities tend to share more because the net gain of lying or stealing and then being caught is much higher than working together. but that changes if you are talking about trying to con or steal from a transient presence or much wealthier presence -- both change the equation enough to possibly tip the scales. -
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Sat, August 18, 2007 - 8:50 PMfair point,
In my post I'm not comparing identical situations. In my defense I do try to aim for brevity.
furthermore my experience is largely 'snap shop' with cheating in business largely being seen in tourist areas where most foreigners are once only customers, hence there is potentially an advantage since the concept or rather opportunity of repeat sale is minimal, whereas my experience with poor communities is in remote mountain areas where there is no tourism and my presence unusual. Similarly I set out to create relationships in those remote areas whereas I don't in cities. So I was being a bit defensive as the word poor conjures an image in my mind of the mountain people I have a great fondness for ... for your pleasure I've posted a couple of pictures... hopefully you will see why...
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Sun, August 19, 2007 - 11:58 AMyou're cool GM23, i meant no offense and wasn't feeling judgmental. i was collaborating with you to figure out the relevant variables of a real difference you have perceived. will check out pics soon!
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Fri, August 17, 2007 - 4:59 AM"i consider how these individual patterns of self-deception form a fractal (excuse the trippiness) geometry at a larger scale and help to create social structures that end up not serving us well enough, based on lies. actions based on true propositions may be difficult at first, but pan out as better for us after a while. i'm not sure, but it does seem that way to me."
I'm having trouble parsing what you mean by long term and what scale you are talking about here. If you are talking about society as a whole over a span of many generations then you are talking about selection at the level of the group--a very different animal than if we are talking about individuals within the span of a single lifetime. I can think of hypothetical cases in animals in which self-deception could pay (especially when it comes to sexual selection where the potential cost is probably fairly low). An adaptive advantage to self-deception at the individual level could easily sink the species though.
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Fri, August 17, 2007 - 12:00 AM:: We've evolved, in other words, to delude ourselves so as better to fool others
what would freud say? there are clear advantages, just from the perspective of one's (divided) self, of lying to oneself: we rationalize having affairs, block out memories in self-defense, refuse to acknowledge impulses or motives which would cause inner turmoil. but to call each of these deception i think is a bit of a linguistic stretch - things that you are not conscious of could never be part of a deception on your part, for the simple reason that you have no access to them. i don't want to be taken as a freud fan - but this question seems to be getting at the nature of freud's notion of the subconscious. it may be meaningful from a functionalist sense to call the existence of a subconscious self-deception, but from our individual perspectives as mind-havers, the 'we' that we identify with is not typically taking steps to deceive ourselves through unawareness (though we can do this). -
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Re: you lying piece of shit!
Fri, August 17, 2007 - 5:12 AMPERHAPS THE OLD ADAGE
HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY
SAYS IT ALL
opps caps on... sorry
although saying that if you are going to tell a lie... best to first believe it yourself if you really want to convince others... although as Lenny rightly points out >>An adaptive advantage to self-deception at the individual level could easily sink the species though.<<
one envisages a don't trust anyone scenario...(esp blokes with beards and funny hats) not much use for a social species..
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Fri, August 17, 2007 - 6:21 PMno, this is right on, kage. freud is perfectly relevant.
"lying to oneself: we rationalize having affairs, block out memories in self-defense, refuse to acknowledge impulses or motives which would cause inner turmoil. "
the short-term gain of putting such things into the unconscious makes sense (especially in the EEA?). but the lies go somewhere in the same brain! enough of them and you have a kind of dissonance that strains the signal processing in the brain, leaking unconscious materials all over like jelly. we all know that unconscious decisions account for pretty much most of what we decide to do. if we are too much at odds with ourselves between our conscious self-narrative and the unconscious, we become staggered, jumpy, inconsistent... i.e. neurotic. it's like you shoot down the death star in episode IV, and they just build a fucking new one in VI, because the plans and materials and laborers are still there.
this is what i meant, that self-deception makes sense in the short-run, but in the long run, unless you can forget something absolutely entirely, which is near impossible with anything important.
also, note that not all that is unconscious is a result of self-deception, just some. that's why you didn't like it linguistically?
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Re: you lying piece of shit!
Sat, August 18, 2007 - 4:40 AMagain the Wisdom of the Past springs to mind...
was it not the bard who said
"When we practice to deceive oh what a tangled web we weave"
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Sat, August 18, 2007 - 11:09 AM>"When we practice to deceive oh what a tangled web we weave"<
Actually, the quote looks more like "Oh what a tangled web we weave, When first we practice to deceive", and that was Sir Walter Scott. I totally agree that lying is deeply ingrained in the human psyche; but that doesn't mean that it can't be rooted out on an individual level, unless, of course, I'm lying to myself. I'm really starting to like evolutionary psychology. -
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Sun, August 19, 2007 - 11:59 AM" I'm really starting to like evolutionary psychology."
this is wonderful to hear! you can't really make sense of anything living things do without referencing evolution... a strong statement, but this is the process by which the creatures were created and "designed," so i consider it reasonable! -
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Sun, August 19, 2007 - 1:56 PM>this is wonderful to hear! you can't really make sense of anything living things do without referencing evolution...<
Quite true. Evolution was a remarkable discovery, and I'd like to see human evolution be investigated to the fullest extent. The greatest downfall, however, is that the mental evolution of humanity is so complex that scientists often fall back on such blatantly unscientific concepts as the "meme" -- a concept better left to 4chan. Pop science aside, I look forward to seeing how the human mind became so wonderfully adaptable, assuming it's quite as adaptable as we think.
One thing that gets me about evolutionary psychology in particular is that it proposes problems; but not solutions. Honestly, I'd expect such a science to help us evolve as a species, or at least as individuals. For example, the claim that we evolved for deception is quite convincing; but does Robert Trivers have any helpful suggestions on how we can NOT be deceptive, or even quite as deceptive~? Can he help others not lie to themselves, and give them advice on how to function without deceit~?
Even if all the religious and spiritual practices of the world are powerless to help us even with that, evolutionary psychologists had better hop to it. Minds and bodies are adaptable, and someone is going to figure out how to adapt the mind for honesty. I'd like it to be an evolutionary psychologist, because then I'd get the whole story with it, you know~? -
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Fri, September 7, 2007 - 6:22 PM"The greatest downfall, however, is that the mental evolution of humanity is so complex that scientists often fall back on such blatantly unscientific concepts as the "meme" -- a concept better left to 4chan."
i don't get the impression from this statement that you're familiar with some of the more arduous attempts to utilize the concept of the meme in talking about culture. aunger's books are a good place to start. dan dennett also employs the concept throughout his works. blackmore's work was brilliant and pioneering, but overreaching a bit, and certainly a little over-enthusiastic.
"One thing that gets me about evolutionary psychology in particular is that it proposes problems; but not solutions. Honestly, I'd expect such a science to help us evolve as a species, or at least as individuals."
i agree, but we need to recognize the bind that scientists are placed in. the scientific method is in large part about trying to ferret out bias and agenda and get to what actually is. of course we can't be naive that there aren't values expressed in funding, emphasis, framing, and the like, but nonetheless a guiding principle behind science is that we try to get to what's actually going on regardless of what we want the answer to be.
that puts scientists in a double-bind when it comes to applying their work in changing the world. if they start drawing applications from their work, they will quickly get accused that their results are biased toward the application. this is fine when the application is technological, but when it comes to implementing social change, whoa nelly, everyone has hemorrhoids and starts throwing tomatoes. it sucks.
it's my feeling that we need more scientific applications for well-being, and that scientists should engage in this work and not be stigmatized for it -- the place for questioning research is in peer review and replication, not in what a scientists might do in applying her or his work!
as far as deception goes, unfortunately what evolutionary psych is likely to conclude is that so long as their is more of a benefit for deception, someone is going to be deceptive, and that strategy/trait will remain or even increase in the population. my personal strategy is one of radical honesty, but it sure gets me in a fuckload of trouble sometimes. i humbly share a blog post on the notion of honest communication for your review:
jeffharmon.blogspot.com/2006/1...th.html
part of my claim there is that 100% honesty is an incoherent concept.
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Re: you lying piece of shit!
Sat, November 3, 2007 - 12:00 AMHi y'all!
Rather than evolving towards increasing ability for self-deception, wouldn't it make more sense to evolve towards increasing ability to lie (or to hide our lies)? Then you have the best of both worlds; an accurate mental map of your own, and the ability to disrupt the accuracy of other's mental maps.
When it comes to self-deception (false consciousness), I don't see the driver as being the ability to lie to others, but the ability for self-serving hypocrisy. Being ethical creatures, we can agree (and actually believe) that we really *should* behave in such-and-such a way, but it may not be in our own best interest to do so. I do actually believe that we should all drive small fuel efficient vehicles, but I do enjoy driving my honking big truck. Isn't this a form of self-deception?
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Sat, November 3, 2007 - 1:25 AM"Then you have the best of both worlds; an accurate mental map of your own, and the ability to disrupt the accuracy of other's mental maps. "
natural selection is constrained in many regards and may not always comes up with the most optimal configuration. the brain is a mess from a design standpoin; all that the result has to be going on for survival and reproduction is a minimal of non-dissonance that keeps us behaving well enough to meet some very basic requirements. it doesn't matter that much how deluded we are, so long as we get the job done. if we successfully survive and reproduce, even a full-on delusion that kept you working hard would be successful. we can't fall into the fallacy that even a powerfully effective ESS would have to become the only strategy at play -- the playing field is bound to vary for many traits.
self-deception probably is contingent upon some of the social modeling and neural development that happened early in our speaking career. you were better at if if you included yourself in the lying audience, because your self-representation would possibly lead to a mirror recoil that would belie your intention. also, the consciousness/unconsciousness distinction evolved as an expression of how awareness is prioritized, with that which is conscious ranking as most important to pay attention to. but what is secondary in one situation and put on the back burner may still have been a vitally important dimension of the experience, so the unconscious may introduce itself again as the experiences are digested through the brain.
this creates likely scenarios of possibly disabling split attentions, with signals from the "past" still present in the moment. it then might become adaptive -- to avoid the delay in responsiveness and disabling effects of responding to stimuli no longer present -- to make up stories about what we're doing to ourselves. simplify the narrative. embellish, confabulate. it appears from gazzaniga's work and from wegner's work on the experience of conscious will, that an area of our left hemisphere may have evolved specifically to connect the dots of volition and responsibility, even at the cost of truth, so long as its job of cordoning off signals in the unconscious was fulfilled and basic needs met.
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Sat, November 3, 2007 - 7:23 PM"wouldn't it make more sense to evolve towards..."
just to be more specific, developments from natural selection are constrained from ideal by a number of facts: one, a profitable mutation or mate or what have you must actually become available; two, you have to pretty much use the materials that are already there and are constrained by development/embryology; three, there is a lag time as change distributes through a population and the environment shifts at its own pace, so an adaptation may mismatch the current conditions and become maladaptive (or vice versa) or a gene in one environment is expressed differently in a very different environment; four, an organism is not simply a unified set of singular interests, and alleles may have competing "interests" in how an organism behaves (recall the "selfish" gene reality of trans-generational evolution); five, no one with a plan or intention or pre-design is involved.
what i am suggesting is that self-deception is more economical than better deception, because we just use the existing matrix of deception and include ourselves, using the already existing modularity and priority ranking of awareness. better and better deception as you suggest would be a continuance of the arms race and would probably be more costly. what do you think? -
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Mon, November 5, 2007 - 1:24 AMMy point I think is that self-deception certainly comes with a cost. "Look, I'm superman, I can fly".....splat.
We already have the ability to lie convincingly (some are better than others at it); why not just get better at it? What is the cost of being able to lie better? Perhaps there is one, but I'm not sure what it is. -
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Mon, November 5, 2007 - 3:06 PMyes, self-deception comes at a cost. and i don't like that cost most of the time. i opt for truthfulness when i can, except for truth-telling as an excuse to be an asshole (i try at least).
what i tried to contribute was that just because something is a better idea doesn't mean it's available to natural selection.
also, look at these two scenarios:
1) get better and better at lying to others, while they get better and better at reading your lies; let the arms race continue on and on...
2) since you already have a modularity to your awareness, just lie to yourself about those things you can get away with doing so, incorporating an existing architecture (unconsciousness / consciousness) and alleviating most aboveboard dissonance that takes ongoing maintenance and effort
self-deception, insofar as it uses the existing modularity of the brain and memory, can sweep things under the rug with less energy used than constant self-aware lying, is my guess. it may be simply a matter of the bioenergetics of self-monitoring. also, self-deception may have utility in motivating you to do things and lessening draining self-doubt. -
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Tue, November 6, 2007 - 3:38 PM"yes, self-deception comes at a cost. and i don't like that cost most of the time. i opt for truthfulness when i can, except for truth-telling as an excuse to be an asshole."
Aren't you confusing self-deception and lying? The whole point of self-deception is that it is not deliberate. You can't opt to deceive yourself. Can you? -
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Tue, November 6, 2007 - 5:05 PM"You can't opt to deceive yourself. Can you?"
i believe you can, but it's tricky. too fast to catch sometimes. peripheral blur. (perhaps unconsciousness is defined by the speed of thought processing at times?) also, you can engage specific vigilant filters for self-deception built on logic, honesty and openness, like a policy in your domain. this permits you to catch self-deception before it "happens." -
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Tue, February 19, 2008 - 12:10 AMFooling yourself is an ancient and useful trait
02 November 2007
From New Scientist Print Edition.
Dan Jones
WE ALL tend to rationalise our bad decisions and try to hide our mistakes, even from ourselves. Now it turns out that the psychological machinery to do this exists even in young children, and evolved a surprisingly long way back in our primate ancestry.
When things go wrong for us, we have a choice - give up on a cherished self-image ("I'm irresistible to women," say), or keep it and play down the situation ("I didn't really like her anyway..."). Over the past 50 years, hundreds of studies have revealed the many tools at our disposal which cope with this "cognitive dissonance" - from selective memory to the biased framing and retelling of events. These allow us to live with our choices and, ultimately, ourselves, yet their origins are poorly understood.
“Selective memory and the biased framing and retelling of events allow us to live with our choices and, ultimately, ourselves”
To explore the evolutionary and developmental roots of cognitive dissonance, and how we resolve it, Louisa Egan and colleagues at Yale University designed tests to elicit conflicting thoughts in 4-year-old children and in capuchin monkeys. The children were initially asked how much they liked a variety of animal-shaped foam stickers. Each child was then shown three stickers which they had rated as equally desirable. Two of these were available for them to take home, while the third was not, and the child was asked to decide which one of the two to keep. Having made their choice, they were told they could also take either the unchosen sticker of the original pair, or the third sticker.
For the monkeys, stickers were replaced by 20 differently coloured M&M sweets - each monkey's colour preferences having been determined by how quickly they retrieved the sweets from a testing chamber. Like the children, the monkeys were then offered a choice between two M&Ms out of a set of three of the same desirability, followed by another choice between the rejected and previously unoffered sweet.
These tasks generate cognitive dissonance in a subtle way. Ordinarily we choose according to our preferences, but being forced to choose arbitrarily between equally preferred options sets up a conflict with this approach. One way to resolve this dissonance is to update your preferences to accord with the choice you make by devaluing the rejected option, so that in retrospect it seems non-arbitrary. What's more, the devalued option should, if the brain is stepping in to resolve internal conflict, subsequently seem less desirable than a previous equal.
This is exactly what Egan's group found: both the children and the monkeys appeared to update their preferences. When presented with the second choice, they were more likely to reject what had previously been an equally preferred option in favour of the third sticker or sweet, revealing cognitive dissonance and its resolution in action. In control groups, where the first sticker or sweet was randomly allotted, there was no subsequent revaluing of options.
This, says Egan, is the first evidence for decision rationalisation in children and non-human primates (Psychological Science, vol 18, p 978).
The work challenges the popular notion of cognitive dissonance as a complex process requiring sophisticated self-awareness, says Eddie Harmon-Jones, a psychologist at Texas A&M University, College Station. "This beautiful study conclusively demonstrates dissonance processes in 'minimal' cognitive situations," he says.
The findings also contribute to a growing emphasis on the similarities between human, ape and monkey minds. "They're part of a growing body of research demonstrating fundamental commonalities in the way human and non-human primates process, and even interpret and evaluate information from their physical and social worlds," says Michael Tomasello, an expert on primate cognition at the Max Planck Institute for Evolutionary Anthropology in Leipzig, Germany.
Egan and colleagues now intend to take their approach into more challenging domains. "We're planning to explore the development of moral hypocrisy and the rationalisation of moral behaviour in children and primates," she says.
From issue 2628 of New Scientist magazine, 02 November 2007, page 14
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